It is 3am and I just got in. I went to see the midnight showing the SATC movie. I am not a girl who cries easily these days, but I confess that I was in tears through most of the movie. Maybe it was the struggles of true love or the enduring friendships, or both. I just know that I came out of that movie wanting the fairytale. I want to fall madly passionately in love with someone and have it reciprocated in kind. I don't know if any of the six men currently vying for number one position will be party to that, but I sure have a nice bunch of caring men in my life right now.

My date earlier tonight had an enormous bouquet of exotic flowers delivered to the restaurant and he made a big to-do over me...I confess I felt a mixture of trepidation, embarrassment, and pleasure. It takes getting used to being surrounded by people who think I'm special and who support me totally. I have not had that previously in my life. I don't have girlfriends who have known me all my life, who have been with me through thick and thin and know every secret. I do have girlfriends (and a few guyfriends) who are getting the best part of my life. I have friends who call when I am sick, who make me laugh, who give me the gifts of their time and love, and I am rich in love.

I know the male blogger fans have been asking for DCF...well, I have decided to not do that any longer. I want to focus on more important things in my life like opening my heart up to possibilities. It has been fun, but I have learned you have to ask for what you want. I have been short-changing myself...I am more than these phenomenal tits I haul around. I think I have been asking for the wrong things especially when it comes to men. I want to remember what it feels like to make love rather than have sex. I want it all. So the Glitter Whore is shopping for love and my what an adventure that is going to be!

Labels: Sex and the City

As Utenzi reminded me today...it has been a while. I was taking a break from blogging...busy with business and 6 (count'em) men.

Tex is still the main squeeze, but we just see each other approximately once a week.

Dancing B lives about 10 mins from me and we had talked for over a year about getting together. I finally consented and we have had several dates. He is a great guy, a gentleman, and best of all he dances ballroom. We met for brunch on Sunday and he brought me a single red rose...isn't that sweet?

Hottie College guy is still a contender. In fact, I was suppose to have a date with him on Saturday but he kept delaying it to spend time with his budz. Ya'see, he graduated on Saturday and asked me to attend. After finding out his parents were going to be there, I declined. I figured it was going to be awkward when he introduced me to his parents, "mom, dad, this is Sassy. She is the older woman I met in a nightclub and I want to fuck her." I told him his mom would bitch-slap me into next month if she caught wind of me. He confirmed my suspicions. Anyway, I was in Greensboro and Raleigh-Durham for a business trip with Hottie Z and I was going to hook up with Hottie College, but his delays irritated me and I blew him off.

Buff Engineer is new on the scene. He lives 2 hours away but comes to my town several times a week. We will be having dinner or lunch next week. I amuse the hell outta him. He amuses me too and he is great looking. We shall see

Scotty boy hmmm....well this is a very very long distance whatever it is. I like this guy. He is chemical engineer, smart, good looking. Originally from here but work took him to Scotland. He is coming back for a visit this summer so we shall meet. He then wants to fly me all expense paid to Scotland. We shall see if that happens.

Brit Boy is a gemstone buyer who lives in NC. He is currently in Italy. He is rather interesting in that Brit sort of way. He is the least of the ones I am interested in. He has asked me to go to Paris & Naples when he returns again for a buying trip. We shall see if he manages to hold my interest that long.

Men all promise certain things:
1. They will be the best lover you have ever had
2. They will always put you first
3. They want to take you somewhere

Frankly, it is all I can do not to roll my eyes when I hear any of those things....the proof is in the bedroom so to speak.

Labels: men summer line up

Grrrrrrr! This nasty chest/sinus/ear thing has not released its hold on me. It is threatening my other ear now. I am pretty tired of the whole sick thing.

As if that were not enough, some former wannabe-with-Sassy-men have resurfaced.These are rejected wannabes I might add. Like the psycho truck driver. I somehow flew into this whackjob's radar last week and he has taken to calling and texting me at all hours of the night. Unfortunately, there is no way to block his calls on a cell phone. Guess I will have Tex answer the phone next time he is around when psycho calls.

Tall dude also resurfaced. My last communique with him in February was to set up a date that weekend. He never returned phone calls, IM's or text messages to confirm and he disappeared. I shrugged and moved on as I was not that into him. Well, he has decided he needs to be in my life. I told him "Tough shit! You were disrespectful and I don't give second chances to men who can't bother to show common courtesy. You haven't even apologized for being a jerk." He slunk away....and then came back for more.

Biker Dude is back for a while, but not in a dating capacity. He is attempting to write a book and I am editing it for him. Of course, the first editing session had him making a pass at me. I managed to get him to back down in the interests of our friendship (such as it is).

Those are the big happenings in Sassyland at present. In between bouts of illness I am out networking and garnering new clients.

Labels: Ill, psychos

Or maybe that should be dancing into Spring.

My dance instructor, the gorgeous Felipe, and I have been working on a smoking hot sultry Rumba routine for a Broadway Dance Showcase we are in later this summer. I do this wrap around embrace on him and then he does this incredible sweeping dip of me. So I am a wee bit excited about the routine--new steps for me to learn and I feel like a goddess on the dance floor. When we practiced over the weekend, this church group had come in and when we finished going through our routine, we got a standing ovation from them.

My dilemma of the two men naturally devolved to one...thankfully. I mean, it is a shame that engineer guy bailed so early on, but I am glad I didn't have to choose between the two. Hottie college guy was never really in the running, so I am not counting him. Tex is holding the line quite firmly. He adores me and frankly it is a heady feeling for me to be spoiled rotten. I surprised him yesterday by showing up at his favorite Starbucks and made his day.

Labels: Tex