I am listening to the radio this morning and a 19 year old girl called in to the local radio celebs with a problem. She has been with her fiance for 4 years. She wants to propose to her fiance that they have a free pass to see others for a while. She loves her fiance, but has never been with another man. She called to ask their advice on her suggestion.

I am wondering what their qualifications are to help her with her dilemma. Does she also take medical advice from street people???? The radio celebs on any given day sound like they have trouble finding their own front door and these are the people she turns to for advice. Scary!

Hope all of you are doing better than this poor girl!

Happy Holidays!

Labels: relationships

I have been formulating my wish list for what I want out of a man in a relationship:

1. Very attentive
2. A good listener
3. Either no children or grown children
4. Good in bed
5. No "road" or "life" rage
6. Even tempered 98% of the time
7. Calm and peaceful
8. Excellent sense of humor
9. Sense of adventure
10. Likes to travel
11. Either likes to dance or is willing to go have fun trying
12. A good conversationalist
13. Has a good job/decent wage earner
14. Demonstrates a romantic gesture from time to time
15. Willing to spend time with my friends
16. Respects my opinion, cares what I think
17. Give and take--not all take, all the time
18. At least as intelligent as me
19. Not a picky eater
20. Honest with self and me
21. Takes pride in appearance
22. Enjoys sex and wants it as much as I do


There is probably a bunch more I could write and when I look at my list I wonder if someone like that exists. I hope so. I don't think I am asking for the moon or for more than I have to offer to someone. I guess I am posing the question to my blogger buds--am I being unrealistic? Am I expecting perfection? I just want someone who is right for me and based on my experiences this is what I am looking for.

Labels: dating, men, relationships